Making decisions in life can feel like one big sorting process. I liken it to cleaning out your closet. When you go through your wardrobe to decide what to keep and what to toss, you will inevitably end up having a YES pile, a NO pile, and of course, the MAYBE pile. It’s amazing how much time you can waste deliberating over the maybes! When you can’t decide on what to do about a particular item, you often decide to keep it. At least that’s what I used to do.
I recently had this revelation – there are no Maybes. If we want and choose to, we can make decision-making very simple: it’s either YES or NO. I recently heard this saying from a friend: “If there is doubt, there is no doubt.” Translated, that means NO.
In work, relationships or any other aspect of life, you have to be 100% committed to what you’re creating to make it a success. If you have doubt or find yourself ambivalent about a person or situation, ask yourself: “why am I not all in?”
If it’s not a YES after you’ve put time and energy into making it one and you’re still deliberating, it’s time to cut your losses, put it in the NO pile, and move on. Trust yourself. Have faith there’s a better situation or someone out there just waiting for you.
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