Self confidence always comes up in conversations with clients. A lack of it is the one universal thing that holds us back. Most of us are confident in some situations in life. Perhaps you’re killing it in your job. You aced the preso or just landed your biggest...

We all want to be liked, accepted and validated. It’s part of being human. The problem is when we lose sight of what we want and what is best for us because we’re chasing after the approval of others. After my corporate gig in Silicon Valley, I took a job as VP of...

Throughout our lives we’ve been programmed to do our best, look our best, be our best.  We strive. We perform. We win. We get into the best schools. We go for the graduate degree. We get that coveted position. We earn the promotion. We start the company. We learned...

Men are notorious for controlling behavior and get a bad rap, especially in these times. The truth is, women can be just as controlling as men. In some circumstances, even more so.  We’re successful, driven women. We’ve been brought up in a culture where we're valued...

I had a glass of wine with a woman who I recently met at an event. She’s in her mid to late 40s, beautiful, self aware, accomplished and down to earth. We started chatting and the conversation led to dating.   She told me she has a history of dating uber...