Self confidence always comes up in conversations with clients. A lack of it is the one universal thing that holds us back. Most of us are confident in some situations in life. Perhaps you’re killing it in your job. You aced the preso or just landed your biggest client. Or your tennis game is off the charts. Or your relationship with your partner is WAY better. Or you feel a sense of ease that you haven’t felt in a very long time, or EVER.
But then something happens:
The product you’ve poured your soul into didn’t make the cut
The client you’ve worked so hard to get chose someone else
You didn’t get the offer
The cute guy you met on Tinder disappeared
Confidence can be tricky – one day you feel it, the next you don’t. The truth is:
real confidence isn’t situational. It’s knowing in your heart of hearts that you are enough. That you can do anything you choose to do. That everything will be okay – actually is – okay.
We’re not born with confidence. Confidence takes courage. It takes trusting yourself. The more you take inspired action towards what you want – regardless of the outcome – the more confident you’ll become.
It’s never too late to build your self confidence muscle. What actions are you going to take today to feel more confident?
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